LOVE in Soda

1、胸襟廣闊，寬容忍讓。這樣的男人不計前嫌，得理饒人，寬宏大量，特別是對自己的女人更能理解體諒，將會使許多矛盾化干戈為玉帛。當然，這種男人表裡一致，絕不是表面一副大度風範，私下卻是小肚雞腸，那樣必然會走入另一個極端。兩人發生爭執，通常是他最先讓步。他會耐心聽你說話，如果你是對的，他能夠承認錯誤﹔即使你不對，他也願意原諒你。有話可以好好講，不會動不動就拉下臉來，送你一臉的表情暴力。也不會為一點小事發脾氣或賭氣，自虐虐人。總之，一個心胸廣闊的男人才會容得下女人的許多缺點，只要女人不過份，一段感情要維繫到老是不難的。

2、吃虧是福，心態平和。相處在一起的男人和女人之間沒有一杆稱可以勻出一種平衡來，誰也無法保証，男人在夫妻生活中不吃一點點虧，再說，在工作中男人也有經常吃虧的可能，一個男人若總是覺得吃虧是禍，自己不該吃一點點虧，就會斤斤計較，患得患失，怨天尤人，吃了大虧痛不欲生，吃了小虧耿耿於懷，情緒總是不好，就會日復一日地失去溫情、健康和機會。這樣的男人會讓女人整日如履薄冰戰戰兢兢，這樣的生活是沒有辦法走到盡頭的。反之，男人若能積極評價吃虧，認為吃虧是福，就會在吃虧中交到朋友長了見識，經常保持良好的心態，天天生活在“福”中，才能使女人在心理和身體上終身依靠。

3、有一點“妻管炎”。一個慣於在女人面前張牙舞爪的男人是不懂得尊重女人的，這樣的男人容易使女人心灰意冷，一個伴女人一生的好男人，是應該有一點點“妻管炎”的。男人體貼老婆知冷知熱本是理所當然，但說到妻管炎——怕老婆，卻不是每位男士都能夠做到的。“怕”並不能簡單地理解為害怕，而應理解為關愛的另一種方式。因為“怕”，不再與老婆爭執不休，因為“怕”，滿足老婆的一些要求，諸如，下班買菜，為老婆添置一件價格昂貴的新衣，工作再忙，總得抽出點時間陪老婆談談心或者散散步。這些都是“怕”的具體表現，卻不失男子氣概。想想看，一個有“妻管炎”的男人，他還“敢”離開自己的女人嗎？

4、喜歡運動，有健康的愛好。有某種運動愛好的男子，較容易找到情緒的出口，不會沒事找事的折磨你，和一個心中有熱情的男人在一起時，日子就會充滿樂趣。一個在生活中有健康愛好的男人也一定會給人生機勃勃的感覺，他不會在苦悶的時候借酒消愁，不會在得意的時候忘乎所以，健康的愛好是他宣泄情緒的一條最佳途徑。因此，有著健康的愛好及喜歡運動的男人，一般有良好的心理素質，這樣的男人生活在充滿“樂趣”的日子裡，他是不會輕易改變自己的。

5、生活簡樸，心地善良。和女人相伴一生的男人不能太貧窮，但無論他多麼富有，也應該是一個生活簡樸的人。過度地揮霍金錢，說明他對未來的生活是沒有計劃的，追求“今朝有酒今朝醉”的奢侈享受，一旦他的事業陷入低谷，他就會一蹶不振，對什麼都失去信心與興趣，對身邊的女人也就抱著無所謂的態度了。心地冷漠的男人心腸一般都比較硬，是不懂得憐香惜玉的，這樣的男人無法給女人帶來終身的依靠，而且在其感情“走私”的時候，面對女人痛不欲生的苦苦哀求，他會頭也不回地走掉，讓人心死。

6、對感情無怨無悔。一個男人一輩子注定會有幾次戀愛，他在不斷的實踐中獲得經驗讓自己完善起來。“專一”的定義並非是他只能一生愛一人，而是每愛一個人的時候他都一心一意。如果他曾經有過刻骨銘心的感情經歷，並為此真心付出過，那麼至少可以証明他是個深情，敢於承諾的男人，一個願意為感情破裂分擔部分責任的男人。這樣的男人，不管他有過幾次戀愛，我想那絕對不是他主觀上的過錯造成的，女人選擇了這樣的男人，只要現實條件不那麼糟糕，是可以“從一而終”的。

總之，擁有了以上這些“優點”， 一定是一個對感情有著高度責任感的男人，他能夠給女人帶來“安全感”，給予女人一生的幸福。

如若我　患了傷風   怕就怕你惹了我的咳嗽
連累你　發起高燒   跟我睡覺你也要分睡床
如若我　喉嚨腫痛   怎樣去唱你愛聽的歌韻
連累你　唇乾口淡   因要共我吃最淡的粥　最青的菜

＊我不要做弱質病人　變一個負累你不幸
　誰想有病　厭惡呻吟　我不要千金百銀
　也祈求這小小的福蔭＊

＃我只想　身體健康
　我害怕你要照顧我　擔心得出一臉倦容
　而我病床中反悔內疚　令你太心痛
　我只想　身體健康
　要活到過百歲不需拐杖都可跟你相擁
　不忍你勞碌的照料我   受了這種切膚之痛＃

如若我　跌短雙腿   我就算去那裡你都跟我
扶著我　輪椅中坐   親我時你也要俯身彎腰
人漸老　耳朵失聰   怎樣去聽你說我多可愛
唯願我　牙齒堅固   可吃盡你炮製我愛的每款小菜

Repeat　＊＃

我會為你好好的保重   我怕病了等於失了寵
怕你嫌藥味太濃　藥煲太重　不知怎操縱

Repeat　＃

我只想　身體健康
看著你替我蓋被　窩心得心有點痛
得到你這般的愛護我   眼淚這刻難自控

Personality:

1.       You've got great self-confidence and you're full of charm. Most guys who get to know you will be attracted to you. You are far from sweet and proper; your intriguing personality fascinates them. Most guys find it easy to fall for a girl like you.

2.       You don't really care about other people's feelings. You do things the way you want and usually think only about yourself. You are easy-going and love to have fun, but you can be irresponsible as well. You are not keen on serious discussions because they can make you remember that life isn't always about parties.

3.       You are a bright, cheerful and bubbly person. You are thoughtful and considerate, and like to have fun. Everybody feels comfortable around you because of your pleasant nature. When you walk into a room, people's eyes are likely to be drawn to you because of your charm.

4.       Your peers think of you as a fun person, but sometimes you can be a little irresponsible. You can be somewhat childish, and can try to ignore the fact that you will one day need to really grow up and be a mature adult! Perhaps you could start reading good books; they might help you look at the world in a different light. You do want to be taken seriously, right?

5.       Your boyfriend thinks that you are a real doll but this is not a totally positive thing. Sometimes you can be a bit too sweet, and come across as being helpless. If you're like this too frequently, your boyfriend and other people are likely to get tired of you having to rely on them all the time.

Love:

You desire a love that will last forever. You are quite serious about finding this type of love, and that's why you think carefully about the men that you meet before deciding whether you could really love them. You don't just develop a crush on someone overnight: you look at a person's personality and other aspects of their life before deciding to form an attachment. If a guy doesn't meet your expectations, you would rather be alone. Your love has to be perfect. Be careful though, you could be missing out on some worthy relationships because your standards are so high.

You value your friendships: 60%

You love your friends very much - so much so that it's actually quite a worry. You may not be able to cope very well when you do lose somebody's friendship. You are a very sensitive and fragile person, and are therefore likely to get upset easily. You care for your friends and are willing to do anything that they ask you to do. Sometimes this can make your friends think that you are a bit of a nuisance. Nevertheless, people do really love you because your highest priority is your friends.

You are an outgoing and cheerful person. Although you get frustrated sometimes, you get through hard times easily and are joyful again.

Your friendly personality makes you attractive in the eyes of the opposite sex, but this makes your spouse feel insecure. Your lack of emotion is a disadvantage, but your candor has made you popular.

Friends of your gender find it hard to understand you because of your innocent thinking. But this is your advantage as it attracts members of the opposite sex who have the same personality as you.

Working: The Mass Communicator

You have a cheerful personality and you are a naturally kind person. Your hidden talent isn't really that hidden at all: you shine among a crowd. You would make an ideal news announcer, flight attendant or model - any position that would give you an opportunity to deal with plenty of people. A tip for you is to avoid getting too deeply involved in others' personal lives - otherwise you might find yourself constantly being asked for help.

Your Working Style

1.  You use your thinking to run as much of the world as may be yours to run. You like to organize projects and then act to get things done. Reliance on  thinking makes you logical, analytical, objectively critical, and not likely to be convinced by anything but reasoning. You tend to focus on the job, not the people behind the job.

2. You like to organize facts, situations, and operations related to a project, and make a systematic effort to reach their objectives on schedule. You have little patience with confusion or inefficiency, and can be tough when the situation calls for toughness.

You think conduct should be ruled by logic, and govern their own behavior accordingly. You live by a definite set of rules that embody your basic judgments about the world. Any change in your ways requires a deliberate change in your rules.

3. You are more interest in seeing present realities than future possibilities. This makes you matter-of-fact, practical, realistic, and concerned with the here-and-now. You use past experience to help you solve problems and want to be sure that ideas, plans, and decisions are based on solid fact.

4. You like jobs where the results of your work are immediate, visible, and tangible. You have a natural bent for business, industry, production, and construction. You enjoy administration, where you can set goals, make decisions, and give the necessary orders. Getting things done is your strong suit.

5. You run the risk of deciding too quickly before you have fully exanimate the situation. You need to stop and listen to the other person's viewpoint, especially with people who are not in a position to talk back. This is seldom easy for you, but if you do not take time to understand, you may judge too quickly, without facts or enough regard for what other people think or feel.

6. You may need to work at taking feeling values into account. You may rely on much on your logical approach that you overlook feeling values-- what you care about and what other people care about. If feeling values are ignored too much, you may build up pressure and find expression in inappropriate ways.

7. Although you are naturally good at seeing what is illogical and inconsistent, you may need to develop the art of appreciation. One positive way to exercise your feeling is to appreciate other people's merits and ideas.

STYLE:

What others see from your style

You probably have high self-confidence and don't mind what others think of you. However, you can be too materialistic and are never content with what you own.

What your nightclothes reveal

You are friendly and always in good mood. You are candid and helpful, and can be sexy at times too.

What others see from your ties

You are kind and friendly. You are an uncomplicated person and enjoy exciting activities.

What others see from your belts

If there's not a single belt in your wardrobe, you like freedom and are opposed to all kinds of rules. You are creative and very good at work that requires you to stretch your imagination. Your main downfall, however, is that you can be very moody.

What others see from your shoes

You like to be the center of attention. You like to look good at all times and probably never leave the house without makeup on. Although you may be intelligent, you're also insecure about your looks. You care about others, and will always listen to what they have to say.

What others see from your earrings

You are a sweet and talkative person. You are sociable, energetic and interesting, and get easily bored by the same old things. You are always looking for adventure.

The last analysis

You are probably a romantic and passionate person. You are sensitive and lonely when you aren't in love. You can be somewhat self-centered, but you are honest and sincere to others. You like to make a good impression of yourself and worry about what others think of you.

因為習慣...

習慣，是時間累積而來的一種動作。
情人間常說：「我對你不再有愛，都變成了習慣了。」
其實，習慣並沒有什麼不好。
它讓你自然的去做。
自然的去想他，自然的去愛他。
當你已經不覺得自己在付出時，也許你覺得，
你己開始習慣，有他陪伴在你的生命中，那才是真的愛。
有什麼不好？
我一直認為很多事情開始要一個人獨自去做時就失去它的意義：
 
當 ～
習慣了兩個人一起吃飯
習慣了兩個人一起看書
習慣了兩個人一起工作
習慣了兩個人一起散步
習慣了兩個人一起回家
習慣了兩個人一起聊天
習慣了兩個人一起商量事情
習慣了兩個人一起發呆
習慣了兩個人一起喝咖啡
習慣了兩個人一起..........

開始一個人
很多快樂都不再了...
請珍惜你身邊所有，把握任何一個美麗的機會
失去了就不再了...
現在請你回想一下
你習慣的那個人，是不是讓你感覺很熟悉，就像家人一樣？

這種感覺，不是那麼容易就可以擁有的，應該好好的珍惜。
也許有天你失去了，才會明白這個人，在你的心理是佔了很大的位置。
好緣份是很神奇的東西，它只送給用心去經營的人。
最近你是否不再那麼用心，去關心或態度冷淡了嗎???
趕快去抓住你那個熟悉的人吧，畢竟你們曾經走過那一段，不是嗎？

愛有多少，付出也要有多少
愛情不是單行道
他﹝她﹞的好更不是理所當然
生氣時，想想他(她)的可愛
抱怨時，想想他(她)的委屈
冷戰時，想想他(她)的溫暖
兩人都懂得付出，愛就會久遠........
畢竟，真心相愛並不容易，不要輕言別離

獻給所有得到過所愛卻又失去所愛的人，給從未得到所愛的人，給因為仍舊愛著，於是選擇自欺欺人的人。這，是一面鏡子，勇敢面對，勇敢放棄，勇敢重新開始。

當他不再愛你的時候，請不要在你不開心，或者是遇到麻煩而彷徨的時候去打攪他。他那兒絕對不是他此刻應該的去處。也許他會在接到你的電話的時候，淡淡地安慰你幾句，卻也僅此而已。也許你會再想要一點什麼，於是說：“我們見面吧。”而他肯定心有煩燥了。當他不再愛你的時候，你的愛，你的人，就會顯得廉價許多。你佔了下風，這是人的本性。他會說：“好，不過我現在有點事情，晚點的時候你再給我電話在吧，或者我給你電話也可以。”而你這時千萬不要當真，他只是找了個不是很高明的理由搪塞你。請不要真的去等，不要騙自己。

當他不愛你的時候，請不要與他講你的瑣事，也許此刻，你不過是希望讓彼此更熟悉一些。只是，他卻無暇更是沒有興趣去瞭解你，你的生活，你的過去，你的長處短處與他又何干？即使講了，他也會很快忘記的，就如他忘記你的生日、你的地址、你的電話一樣。沒有愛，於是你注定擠不進他的生命。即使，你要的哪怕只是一個很小很小的角落。

當他不愛你的時候，請不要在他的面前流淚，不要在生病的時候告訴他。他無法給予你照顧和關心。至多是同情一下，而，請驕傲的你，不要放棄本來屬於你的驕傲。雖然大多的人，在愛的面前丟失了許多，連站起來的勇氣都沒有，何來驕傲。只是，要記得，只有愛自己的人，才可以真正地去疼惜你。而不是，旁觀你的同情，憐憫。

當他不愛你的時候，請不要失去自己的信心。因為愛一個人，並非他的優秀，而只是一種感覺。他讓你有這樣的感覺，於是你愛他。同樣，他不愛你，也並非你不優秀。優秀，不是愛的理由。看看還有那麽多愛自己的人，淡淡地微笑一下，也是異樣甜美的。

當他不愛你的時候，也一定要祝福他。有了愛，便不該有恨。愛是美好的。恨卻醜陋。何必讓生命中最美好的東西化作醜惡呢？也不要覺得不公平。關於離去，他失去的是一個愛他的人，而你失去了一個不愛你的人，卻得到了一個重新生活，重新去愛的機會。

請不要去想到“永遠“。愛沒有永遠。你此刻深受，卻注定遙遠的某一天也不再愛他。他只是早一步到達了這一天。當他不愛你的時候，請輕輕擁抱一下回憶裏的溫暖，輕輕地凝視凋謝的溫柔。

當他不再愛你的時候，親愛的，請你深深呼吸，一生的路上，鋪滿了愛的花蕾，總有那麼一朵屬於你，不是安慰你。而是，這是生生世世早已注定的。